Fun, Funny, Quite Distrubing People (Part III)

Hi Again Everybody... I'm coming again in an instant because i still want to write or need to write exactly.hihihihi.. This is the third part of my previous blog. I dunno whether i can finish it in one day cause here is kinda busy with upcoming holiday, so i have to rush my work so that there's no problem for me to have my full holiday and hopefully i can have fun this time.

The third part maybe will contain my personal thought and a bit story from my past. Do you guys still remember the little girl from my part II story??? of course you'll remember that, you just have to re-open the previous blog if you don't. lol...

So you know, this girl grow up and became the person i don't really recognize again this day. I just have this awkward feeling for her. I keep wandering why she's becoming like that. I barely didn't recognize her anymore i think. It's just i also don't hope she'll change this much and slip from our hands. I just don't like her manner now and then maybe. Because i take that her manner will never change again once she's in it.

She changed to became an adult who keep blaming on her Mom because of her Mom gave her a  very strict education and curfew time when she's still in teenager. Now she can said that she have no friends now because of that. For me, it's a total LOL. Did she ever think that her Mom did that because her mom afraid she'll get drowned into that manner and came to disappoint her. Her Mom always told me that she's just totally alike her father's side grandmother.

Now she got a boyfriend that in my auntie's eye is already good and fit for her. I also feel very happy if she get the perfect and happy life. In many ways, i still love her and wish her a real happiness. But she just turn out from my sight and against me so i just keep my mouth shut because i know it would be useless for saying another words. I just wish she'll never forget her mom in the future, because now i grow to realize why her Mom always said to me that she's alike with her grandma. However she had this attitude that only matter herself instead of her mother too. It's like she'll survive without other people, this manner she have is the same with my younger brother. They always think of themselves  like there's no responsibility for others. Maybe they were built up like that. I dunno the reason why they became like that too.

It is totally acceptable for me when it comes to my younger brother. Because if he, i still can bear it because he still have us older sister and youngest brother to complete his responsibility when he abandoned it. But for her, you knew already that she's only her and her mother. She's the one and only one in her mother's heart. She's her mother only hope. But i think she never realize that. She can't understand and can't bear with her mother even for awhile. Like now after she got a boyfriend, she always go out shopping, eat, have fun with his boyfriend but he never think of getting anything for her mom. Even when her mom is sick at home, she never care and try to go home early and accompany her mom that can't eat anything. *sigh*

And for my matter is, she make me feel like i'm her ordinary friends that she knew only for a year. hahhaa.... totally suitable for my image, huh... Last time story was when we gone out with our mandarin teacher and couple friends, we went to have dinner at a small restaurant and her boyfriend who pays the bill that coming from the waiters, but after walked out from the restaurant she said to me "let's go to uncle house and start count our bill." My first thought is like "See, see, here they come again." and my second thought is "Oh, can't you count it tomorrow or then." It's totally ruin my mood for the rest. It's totally disturbing for me. They want to treat our mandarin teacher but she count the bill in front of our teacher and started collecting the money in the car. Uuugggghhhhh...... Really pissed me off!!!!you guys know. I quickly said with sharp tone "can't you guys please don't count it in our teacher's face". Luckily our mandarin teacher dunno what we're talking about. In my thought, they like want to be saw very loyal in others people eye but totally stingy in the inside. If both of you want to treat people than do it wholeheartedly please. (jangan cuma cari muka!!!!) It's not like a very big sum of money. If it's big i think i still can tolerate that kind of manner. But this is already overreacting.

Both of them can eat like 6 times or more a day if they are together. But they can't treat other people a dinner with some small sum. Is this something that can compare to that thing??? Not to say that i'm very loyal person but at least for something like this i'll never behave like that. If it's a big sum of course i'll pay them back too!!!

One thing that i have in my personal thought is that when i said to my other auntie's that her boyfriend is very stingy, she said that's okay lar cause he knew how hard to earn money. My thought is like, ups.. i complain to the wrong person. Because they are the same type. I shut my mouth in the very second. Did they think that they are the one who knew how hard to earn money???? Hello, do you think how i earn money too??? Is it like flipping a book?? Big No!!! I have to use my brain and ability too, hey. And this story goes the same for my younger brother. He just feel that this problem is just ordinary. But my grandma, grandpa, and youngest brother was agreed with me. My youngest brother asked me before he fell asleep one night, " did Ms.Pn always like that before???" I simply just can't answer him in an instant.

My opinion, for me this is not ordinary, they are over stingy and not in place. If i want to be honest, if we have no responsibility than this matter is totally no matter thing. But this is fully my personal thought. Remember this, you guys can take this story as something to think about. So it is totally up to you people what side do you agree and don't. Above is all of my complaining story. I guess i have to end this story soon. My boss is back. Hihihi...... Xoxo. Jz.

Fun, Funny, Quite Distrubing People (Part II)

Hi Again.. See you again in this part II, don't get me wrong but i just have things to share and a command from my lovely cousin to keep writing my blog. hihihihi.... and not because of she pushed me to, i myself also want to write what i had in mind so i'll remember it no matter when and where.hihihi.....

In this part II maybe i'll share some thought of mine to all of you. I'll tell a story too.hihihi...I'll start with i knew my cousin with initial Ms. Pn from my past when i was sent to school in Medan. And i also knew my other girl cousin name Ms.T. I lived with this Ms. Pn and her Mom. They are like my family, substituting both of my parents which is far miles away from me that time. If this little girl had a ribbon then i'll have one too. If she had candy then i did too. So i knew her mom definitely took good care of me. When i was a little girl, i had a thought like, wish my mom & dad will gave me small thing like that. Not because of they can't afford that but i knew they can't fulfill that because of many other important reason which at that time i still can't understand.

From time to time my relationship with Ms. Pn grew stronger and stronger because i knew we had bath together, eat the same breakfast, lunch, dinner together, bed together, got in a fight together that made us ended up sleeping in the front door of our bedroom but we start to make a joke of it that time (If i start to think of it. I'll scream silly me. hahaha.). Her mom is a really strict person in teaching manner to both of us. Her Mom is a single parent which bringing up two little girls. I know that is not a simple thing that every women can done it well in this world. So one day i can help them what i can in the future. This is my willing but i dunno whether i can done it well or not. You'll never know what you'll end up to be, is that right????

So I lived with them until i'm in the middle age of 15 maybe. Then they moved out to our auntie's house but they can't afford me, so i just had to moved in with my uncle and his wife.When i moved out i already not in the care of her mom so i dunno exactly how's her day at there and how's she growing up to be. I just know that her Mom strictness and lesson is very useful for me. And i missed that time when we're still that little girl and dunno every single thing that will stuck in our hearts & brains for ages.

So above is my little story so that all of you know more about my pass and i can make it a free memory. We'll continue it to the Part III everybody. So be patient for it. Because if i write it in this part, i think it will too long. Xoxo. Jz.

Fun, Funny, Quite Distrubing People

HI All, seems it's been ages since my last blog sharing... Quite lazy, am i??? Big Yess.. hahhaa.... So here i have a command to share this time..hihihi.. So i'll share what i have in mind today..

Today is Monday and i'm of course currently in working time at office but i feel very very lazy and sleepy from head to toe... Wanna know the reason why???? Here it go & flow below..wkwkwk.....Love y'all...

This past Sunday, i've spent it with my mandarin teachers (we have 2 here that close to us) and friends (not to mention mostly is my loveky cousins, brothers and two other friends), because of our Mandarin teachers will soon go back to their country called China, province state in Beijing after two years struggling to gain money by teaching us (really stubborn headed person and lazy-of course-at studying mandarin.Hihihi). We, both of their students want to bring them to have fun with all of us.

So we ended up bringing them to Medan biggest shopping center called Sun Plaza. Actually we kinda have no idea why we gone there cause we had nothing to buy there and nothing to see there, only crowded people everywhere. In the end we decided to eat Red Mango Yogurt and then we rushed to Cemara Asri complex to show them how we, medan people spent tea time at a place called Bundaran. There was so many people gone there to have some snack before dinner. There was so many snack you can buy like sosis, pecel, teng-teng, rujak, martabak, bla bla bla means many more.hahaha...(try to go there if you want and have a taste of it.)

We ended up having snack till our stomach so full, so we walked from Bundaran to the Cemara biggest Buddhist monastery of nunnery (vihara) and take a look there and chattering all along till we are ready for dinner time. We decided to had dinner at Taberu restaurant that famous with their soft crab, we ate and talk till we full and they drove me and my brother to my uncle house which already full of our Big Family there and we start chattering again at there till 10.00 and we gone home one by one.

I'll upload few picture that shows our activity :

This is what my lovely cousin, Mr. Frederick do in the middle of the class. He'll ended up sitting in our teacher chair and start filling his curiosity for everything there..hihihi.. This always drove our teacher got angry with him so she gave him a nickname in Mandarin like "Hen Da De Xiao Mao" which this phrase maybe means like " A little cute bear that try to look really big". I dunno how to describe it better for you. But if you understand mandarin maybe you'll know what it means. hehe.

And this picture is my younger brother, Mr. Tomy. You see what he had in his hands???? That's Blackberry which never apart  from him everywhere he is. And include in the middle of the class, he'll never tired to keep torturing our teacher by showing up his phone and tweet on it. So our teacher gave him a nickname too sounds like this in mandarin "Niu Niu Nie Nie " that means "malu malu kucing / salting" in Indonesia. And also "Kou Shi Xin Fei" means "Lain di mulut, lain di hati" in Indonesia.

This picture shows my lovely cousin and her boyfriend, her boyfriend just sign in in our class this month and see they never sat apart from each other. So nice to be in love.. hahaha.... They have nickname too!!! "Chen Phei Nie he Ta de 'Peng You'." means "Katherine and her Friend" Maybe if i write it you'll think this is just an ordinary with words but we always said wit ith an accent and hands language, we'll said the "peng you" part with both of our peace sign fingers beside our head that means this friend is special" after that all the class will laugh out loud. So fun and funny isn't it????

The picture above shows me and my younger brother, I'm trying to update my farm in my itouch and my younger brother is busy with his blackberry under his bag. Guess what, i don't even knew this picture was taken by my teacher and when she sent to me this pic, she said "this will show you that you can't keep your attention for your lesson." hahaha... So sorry laoshi. ^^

This is all i can share so far. I'll make the part II of this blog, so keep waiting everybody. hihihi... Xoxo. Jz.